This afternoon I had a second hook up with a retired cop. Nice strong, hairy arms; calloused hands (and feet!) Not someone you would peg (pardon the pun) as a bottom.
I don't imagine that he gets a lot of action as despite my sucking and then rimming him for a long time (during which he continually purred with pleasure) as despite my having him relaxed and dripping wet, he was incredibly tight, and it required patience just going in with the head, pulling back and pushing a bit further, pulling out and rimming him, easing more into him, pulling back out, using lots more spit and then gradually and slowly pushing more of myself in. At a certain point as I pushed the final inches in I heard him gasp "big dick" with a bit of shock. I just remained still and then sensing he was adjusting started to slowly pull back and then ease forward to develop a gradual rhythm. His ongoing sighs of pleasure confirmed he wasn't experiencing discomfort and then after awhile I would feel him loosen up and as I pulled back and thrust forward he was pushing his ass to meet me. Well into it at a certain point I murmured "let me do the fucking."
It went on for quite a long time; he definitely loosened up, but there still remained satisfying friction. Yet, despite being at it for then 30 minutes I decided I needed to pull out and give my cock a chance to desensitize and pushed him on his back to make out and to stroke his cock. But he grasped my cock and stroked it and clearly wanted more. I did as well, but you can tell when you need a break or you'll never cum.
I pushed him back on his side and spooned him and we got into lazy relaxed fucking, where the wetness and the entry and withdrawing were audible. It felt good, and I was enjoying it, but getting my nut needed seem likely. At moments like this, awful as it sounds, I start to imagine fucking someone else to mentally get to cumming. I asked if he was getting sore or tired, and he said he was really enjoying it. He must have sensed I needed some verbal stimulation as he started to grunt and sigh somewhat more. And then with a leisurely pace the sensations in my cockhead began and I felt myself start to spurt. I was glad because it felt great, but also because I was imagining I was going to need to pull out and stroke off.
As I grew still and kissed and licked the back of his neck for awhile he quietly asked "did you cum?" I am not into histrionics; ejaculating makes my mind explode and my cock does the speaking as I focus my energy there. Clearly cumming for me is a largely mental exercise: getting there, and then slowly savoring the release of semen and energy. And then he said "yeah, I can feel the shaft throbbing." Rather than large quick jets of cum, my cock and balls take awhile to gradually empty. I stayed hard in him and after awhile started to grow softer. He then coughed and my cock came out of him and he gasped with my exit.
My goal is to suck a guy off afterward, if possible, but this is one of those guys who never seems to get there despite steady sucking and stroking and playing with his balls. I'd thought during the foreplay he was there and hoped to get him off, though realizing often guys can't get fucked after they come. Despite my best efforts it didn't happen; he seems like a guy who would later stroke himself off alone.
He is a very nice guy and murmured "I left a washcloth out for you" when I indicated I needed to get out of his hair. As we both got dressed there was that post hook up awkwardness, but he walked me to the door, gave me a cold bottle of water, and with a kiss said "you're always welcome."
It was a good time, but don't know how he doesn't wear out; my cock now is definitely sore, but pleasantly sore.
